Fail Seven Times, Get Back Up Eight

I think that we all know that social media creates the illusion that everything is perfect and rosy in everyone's world but it doesn't show the dark sides of things. People always want to preach that everyone is fake on social media and I'm like "So, are you supposed to share all your sorrows because that's not fun to see either." It's a double standard because no one wants to see your dirty laundry but they also want to condemn everyone being "fake" and only showing the good on social media! Haha! Anyway, my point is ... I've failed, and I've failed, and I've failed some more. I wanted to share all of the big times that I've failed in my life that you might not know about or maybe you do. 

I have never been the smartest crayon in the box. Every single thing in academics that I have, I have worked my butt off and then some more. 

1. I wanted to go to UNC Chapel Hill my entire life (like literally since I was 5), and I was waitlisted and then deferred. 

I worked every second of every day I feel like for my entire high school and middle school career. I remember going online, seeing the news, and then just asking my family to give me time alone in my room. I sat there and sobbed for an hour.

2. I ended up at App, and I KNEW I wanted to be a pharmacist. It didn't matter that I sucked at science. I was going to work for it....and I did. I failed my first calculus exam. I failed a physics exam, and I got a C- on my first organic exam. I ended up with a 3.9 leaving App because of one thing ... unwavering relentless passion towards a goal that I set. I cannot tell you the hours I spent on EVERY single assignment. I'm not the smartest, but I'll be damned if I don't work the hardest. 

3. After two years of slaving away, it was time to take the PCAT. I did TERRIBLE. I took it again, and did slightly better but still not well. I thought my 3.9 and well roundedness would help me. I was denied from pharmacy school. 

I sat in my floor, and sobbed, and sobbed. 

I took the PCAT a third time, and finally my scores were decent for that next year, and I got in. I applied to Campbell, ETSU, Wingate, and UNC. My dream of UNC was still there, but again, I didn't get in. I chose Campbell (thank goodness or I wouldn't have met Tanner). 

4. I actually was made fun of by some people about "pulling a Katie" in pharmacy school which basically means that I study study study and still don't do the best on exams. It makes my stomach hurt just thinking about it. I can't really put into words just how hard I worked to get my doctorate. I feel as if that gives people leverage (even on the dumb website this year) about how "stupid I am." As my husband says, "You can have the IQ of Einstein and NOTHING beats out the character of a hard work ethic." 

Fall down seven. Get back up eight. 

5. I guess this isn't a failure on my part, but I went through a break up that pretty much changed me entirely. It was a really dark time in my life for about a solid 8 months, but I stood back up. 

6. I'm recovered from an eating disorder. 

And when I say recovered, I mean 100%. I mean I never ever ever think about body image...ever.  ED is a mental disorder, and my husband has said that he feels I'm very blessed from God to be where I am now after where I've come from, and I'm thankful for that every single day. I'm still in awe at it to be honest. I thought I was doomed for life, but my God is bigger than that!! 

7. I decided I was going to be an IFBB pro. I was going to work harder than anyone, and make it to the top. I have competed in 5 shows, and have not ONE time qualified for nationals. I really think my dog Peyton could go to a show and qualify for nationals. Everyone qualifies. I mean everyone. I never did. One time (my best package that I ever brought to the stage), I was dead last. I mean "this doesn't make any sense" last. I honestly think they lost my number but regardless, I was the last number called up. 

8. I signed up for three marathons, and bailed three separate times even after paying the fees because I made up excuses why I couldn't at that time. 

There are more, but honestly some of them still hurt me so deep that I am not comfortable sharing. My point is this: 

You are going to fail in life. We all will. We are going to have things that cut us to our core. They will cut us so deep that no one really knows what we go through and you are probably reading my list and thinking "Oh please, she doesn't even know what I've gone through" and I don't. I really don't. I'm sorry for all the losses that you've had in your life, because I know I've had plenty and I know how much they hurt me. The important thing is... stand back matter what. 

My husband has said to me many times, "I wish things were easier for you. It seems like the road is always so long for you, and I just wish you didn't have to work so hard." 

So, every time that I get an email praising me for all that I do, and where I've been, I just wish that people knew that it comes down to one thing.....hard work and the graciousness of my Father. That's two things that no one will ever take away from me. 

2 Corinthians 12: 8-10: 

"Three different times I begged the Lord to take it away. Each he said, My gracious favor is all you need. My power works best in your weakness. So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may work through me. Since I know it is all for Christ's good, I am quite content with my weaknesses, and with insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong."

With love and failures, 


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Health & Fitness for Beginners

I think that many times my blog and instagram appeal to those that are at a high level of fitness, and may intimidate those that are just getting started. 

Let me just say that no matter where you are in life or in your place in the health world, it's as easy as making the decision to start. I know that it all seems daunting and workouts seem dreadful, so I wanted to share some tips with you today to really get you started in this crazy world. 


This world is going to throw every piece of advice out there to you for one reason and one reason alone-TO MAKE MONEY. It's quite sad how much people are tricked in the health and fitness industry of these diets, pills, wraps, detox, and teas that are the "Solution to Weight Loss". If you aren't in the health and fitness industry, all of this stuff sounds SO convincing and believable. I remember how I believed it all. The fact of the matter is, you will have to work and you will have to work hard, but you also should not work TOO hard. If you are smart and use an approach that works for you and is sustainable for life then you've truly found the ticket. If it's a diet or detox that is for ONE week then you know it's not worth spending your money on.


Many times I get asked how I became such a runner. The truth is....I started running. Last year at this time, I was not a "marathoner". I hadn't even started for my first marathon. I remember running 8 miles with a friend (literally only one year ago) and feeling like I was going to die and was so proud of myself. Then, this past Monday I ran 16.7 miles with relative ease. It just takes time and commitment to a goal. It takes being committed enough to stick with it during the winter months. It takes being dedicated enough that you don't take a month off. This doesn't mean that you can't have many many rest days, but whatever goal that you have is going to take knowing that if you mess up, that doesn't mean to continue. It means that you should jump right back in.


This goes off what I mentioned above, but if it's drastic, it's not sustainable. If it's starving you, then that's not the answer. If it's something that you are doing on your own, then don't expect to lose the weight overnight. Don't cut out all sugar, soda, and everything in between. Take SMALL baby steps towards making positive life changes and it will make a big difference in the end. I'm SUCH a huge advocate of not cutting out anything. Don't restrict ANYTHING. Just have these things in moderation and smaller amounts as you begin your journey.


I can't stress this enough. For workouts, you need to enjoy them. I think back on when I did insanity, and honestly I hated it. I hated those workouts and I dreaded them. There is very intense workouts, and yes they may help you on your journey to immediately losing weight but you've also got to be realistic with yourself. Do you love to play tennis? Well then play tennis!!! You just need to get moving.


I wrote a post on this one time, but having a friend along for the journey is going to make you more likely to succeed so I would definitely recommend finding someone else who can be an accountability partner with you whether that be a friend or a spouse. If your spouse is not on board, then you need to sit down with them and really tell them the goals that you have set for yourself to make sure that they realize how important this is to you so that they can help you to make those positive life changes. If your husband is eating a pizza while you are eating a healthy meal, it's going to make it really hard to make those changes even if your stir fry tastes just as good!! ;) It's all psychological! 


Again, there are so many gimmicks out there, and you want to have someone knowledgeable on your side that is going to help you to work through all of those questions and concerns. You may do something, and it's just not working for you and that's okay. It's not time to give up. It's just time to switch it up, and asking questions can help you to discern what route to take next! 

Even if you don't have time to walk around your block at night or if you have a newborn child, it's okay. You still can start on the route to better health. It ALL starts in the kitchen and making better choices on what to eat. If you start that first and don't even work out one day, then you are gong to start to feel better and progress. 

And as always, I have FULL faith in you and what you are capable of. Every single person has it within them to do this!!! It just all starts with your reason of WHY you want it personally. 

With love and beginners,



 I've wanted to do this for a while, but I felt that I needed pictures of every single thing that I was going to present to you, but I decided to make this short and sweet and to the point and not worry too much about the pictures!! :) 

THIS                    versus                     THAT

Banana + 1 tablespoon PB                                                                   Mr. Goodbar

1 Large Apple                                                                                       Wendy's Junior Frosty

Protein Waffles + 1 tablespoon PB                                                      Wendy's Chili 

Wendy's Small Frosty                                                        6 pieces of Honey Wheat 40 cal bread 

Fruit on the Bottom Greek Yogurt                                            1/2 cup Cookies&Cream FroYo

Cliff Bar                                                                                                  1 Cup Froyo      

One Burger (no bun)                                                           4 oz chicken + 4 tablespoons of PB 

1/2 cup oatmeal                                                                                 1/2 cup Froyo 

Bagel and cream cheese                                                                Ice Cream Cone      

Here's my point:

There are certain things that are considered "healthy" and there are others that are deemed "unhealthy" but why? It ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS comes back to simple nutrition: 

Carbs, fats, proteins-Am I repetitive or what? 

Yes, if you eat a low glycemic index carb (oatmeal), this will keep you full for longer than froyo which has a high glycemic index. Yes, sometimes there are those that are insulin sensitive and it matters that they eat the oatmeal but MOST of the time, it's going to be metabolized the same. Yes, an apple is better for you because of the vitamins and minerals that it provides, but I feel many times people eat something considered healthy and it's just as processed as a burger and fries from Mcdonalds (okay maybe not that bad).

I heard a commercial for smoothie king yesterday. They were advertising their new "Nutty Super Grain Vegan Smoothie" This sounds like the holy grail of all healthiness right? And I'm sure that it is....for those that are vegan and trying to stick with 100% plant based. But the truth of our society is, many people will get this thinking that they are making a healthy choice. And the truth is, the smoothie contains 440 calories, 21g F, 54g C, 18g P and 7g fiber.

The Chickfila fried chicken sandwich has 440 calories-18g F 41g C 28g P 

So the FRIED chicken sandwich has more protein, less carb, and relatively the same amount of fat (but less). SIGN ME UP FOR THE CHICKEN SANDWICH!!! That doesn't mean that I choose the chicken sandwich every time but that means that I'm not restricting food from anywhere at any time.

I hope this sheds some light! :)

With love and my obnoxious love for macros, 


What I'm Training Tuesday

So, this is not to become a thing because when I try to start a "thing" on my blog, I always forget to do it but maybe I'll start doing these more frequently ;) 

I uploaded a picture last week of how I have wrote out my workouts all the way to August which feels so amazing. I know what I have to do and each day I just execute. I feel like it is really helping me to stay focused and injury free. I do however, make slides for life events that come up. For example, this weekend we were going to Charleston for a friend's wedding and I always do my long runs on Saturdays or Sundays. Well, I moved it to Monday because I wanted to make sure to enjoy my weekend. I added in an extra 5 miler on Saturday to keep my legs fresh and moving with anticipating the 16 miler that I would do yesterday. 

{Fun fact: I took a wrong turn yesterday. I knew I was taking the turn that wasn't anticipated but I thought it was going to help me avoid a hill. I ended up NOT avoiding the hill, and going 16.7 miles. The hill was at the last 0.7 miles so I kinda wanted to pass out. Ha!}

I have an Olympic tri this weekend, which I thought was a sprint tri. I found out (literally today) that it was a 27 mile bike ride not a 15 miler. I was doing this race specifically because I felt I needed an open water swim before my half ironman in October. This is in my hometown (or the one right beside me) and so I knew it was now or never. So, with very minimal training, I'm jumping right into this. I have enough training and endurance under my belt that I think I'll be fine. Tanner says that if I ran 17 miles, that's much more difficult than 27 miles on a bike so we will see.

The past few weeks have been all over the place, but I've managed to stay pretty consistent. 

Monday-Long Swims, light leg days 

Tuesday-Shoulders/Chest, 6 miles 

Wednesday-1000m swim, 30min bike, 2 mile run

Thursdays-Bike 60 min, Back/Abs

Friday-8 mile tempo


Sunday-Long Runs (alternating long runs and long long runs) 

For example, I did 14 miles then 10 miles then 16 miles and next week I'll do 12 then move up to 18! I'm going all the way to 20 miles this time before my marathon because this marathon is really tough and I want to make sure that I'm prepared. It's ranked the 12th toughest marathon in the world (Grandfather Mountain Marathon). WOAH. I'm going to go into it with the mindset of an ultra marathon which is just to finish. I don't have any time goals, and I normally say that and don't really mean it but I totally mean this. I have heard that most people walk the really steep climbs and run the rest, and I plan on following suit. 

I have been asked to share my swim workouts that I do so I thought I would share one with you today. All of my swim workouts are from the book IronFit Secrets-Half Ironman Success so I don't claim rights to these AT ALL. I go through the workouts that they give me and the link to their book is right HERE. They have tons of great swim workouts!

This week (as in tomorrow because I'm adjusting my week this week based on the fact that I did my long run on Monday not Sunday): 

300 warm up, 6x50 drills @ 10 seconds, 6x50@10 seconds, 3x100@20seconds, 3x200@30seconds, 3x100@20seconds, 6x50@10seconds, 6x50 drills@10seconds, 200cool down

This is all freestyle. The "@10 seconds" just simply means that when you get done with each 50 meter swim, you take a 10 second rest. You repeat this 6 times through and move to the next. These workouts combine to equal about 3000 meters and an hour workout. It takes me longer sometimes because I'm a slow swimmer but I know I'll get better. 

I hope this helps to see how I'm training! Happy training y'all! I'm loving tris! It's so exciting and fun! My tri suit should be here any day, and today  I ordered something to help adjust my bike to make it more comfortable! 

With love and tri training,



So, I should have named this future adoption because people are probably clicking on this thinking that we are starting the process. But, we aren’t. I just simply wanted to write about my desire for the future and what I feel the Lord has led us to do.

You know you have those things in your life that just keep coming up and keep tugging at your heart. You don’t know why, but you just can’t let the thought go. There were two things like that for me:

  • Living in New York City
  • Adopting a baby of another race


Yea, I know. That shouldn’t matter. It’s not that I’m against adopting a little white baby (of course not), but that’s just not the vision the Lord has laid on my heart.

I’ve read a lot of books on families that have adopted. I follow tons of bloggers who have adopted. I know there are many different ways. I know that it’s very expensive.

Teresa is a blogger at who probably knows just how much I love her family dynamic by now <3 I love following her blog and family! (2 of her own, 4 from ethiopia)

Teresa is a blogger at who probably knows just how much I love her family dynamic by now <3 I love following her blog and family! (2 of her own, 4 from ethiopia)

Sometimes, my heart starts to wonder, “Lord, are you giving me this desire because I am infertile?” Yall, I’m terrified of that. That’s not my desire either. I want both biologic and adopted. My dream is to have my own, and then to adopt, but Tanner and I have talked and prayed and the Lord has given us a peace that if this feeling that we have comes true, then we are okay with that too.

I’m no pro on the process of this. I am open for any comments or advice for those that have. I have spoken with many people about their experience, and I’m gonna be honest with the reaction I get many times for those that haven’t adopted:

“Don’t do it, Katie”

I honestly hate when people tell me this. They give me lines such as “well you never know what you’ll get”, “What if something’s wrong?”, “What if they aren’t accepted?”

What? Just what? No.

What if something is wrong? –Well then they are my baby and always will be at that point. Wanna know the response I get every time from someone who has adopted?

“100% do it. It was the best decision of my life.”

I hate race topics. They actually kinda make me nervous. People get really upset over them, and it’s so prevalent in our world right now that I just avoid all talk on it. However, I wanted to tell you what I think about diversity.


“On Earth as it is in heaven.”

I have this picture saved on my phone and not sure where I found it, but it just melts my heart.

I have this picture saved on my phone and not sure where I found it, but it just melts my heart.

I remember one time in high school and I was in an integrated church service. Let me be frank with you. I grew up in a 100% white church. I never thought about it that way. It’s just the way it was. There was a family visiting. The mom and dad were white. The babies were black.

During the service, the dad looks down at his daughter and she smiles the sweetest smile at him and he whispers down “I love you princess” and she grabs his hand. I remember having tears in my eyes looking at this large white hand holding this little black girls hand and thinking “this is what the love of Jesus looks like”.  It’s a love that can’t see colors or races or genders or body shapes or anything. It’s a love across all borders.

As time has went on, we have talked about what race we would adopt? Chinese? African? Overseas? Local? Foster?  Each time we wonder, we literally have no clear answers on what we want. We just know we will know when that time comes.

We met a friend in New York City, and his name is Andrew. He spoke to us about the economic diversity of the Philippines where he is from. {{Side Note: he’s SUCH an incredible servant to the Lord. We are so very lucky to have become best friends with him}} I know this is common in many nations but the rich are rich there and the poor are very poor. So personally, my heart is just set now on adopting from the Philippines {have you seen how beautiful Philippinos are? HA!} but of course I have no idea if that will play out for sure.

We had a precious other friend in NYC named Soojin. She was adopted approximately at 9 months old, and doesn’t even have an official birthdate. However, she speaks on how the Lord has literally pursued her through her entire journey, and I just love hearing her story of adoption and then birth in Jesus.

I have also spoken with a friend of mine who has adopted babies out of foster care.  She has the most precious family and was able to adopt a brother and a sister both from birth. Sometimes children are taken from parents before the child is even born (kinda sad) and apparently there is a large need in my own backyard (Shelby).  I am not someone who is hooked on overseas adoption and I know it’s much more expensive so we are going to pray about it and see where the Lord leads our hearts. PLEASE just look at these cute little boys from the Philippines! <3

PLEASE just look at these cute little boys from the Philippines! <3 

My dream/vision is having two of my own and adopting two but honestly, everyone I know that has a child recently has said I’ll change my mind and I know they know better. Haha!! Babies are NOT easy! I KNOW that. But they are also worth it and so rewarding.

Right now, I’m living in a back bedroom of my mom’s house and need a house so let’s start with step 1. Haha! ;) 

With love and adoption,


So You Don't Want to Count Macros?

Many times, people start on the track of healthy eating, they hear about macros, and they think it's for them. They begin to count and then they realize quickly that it makes them obsessive, or they just don't like having to take the time to count. They email me that they are frustrated, and so I always say to stick for at least 3 weeks before making the official decision. Macro counting can be very daunting at first, and normally I refer them to this blog post HERE.

This explains some difficult things that happen as you are first starting to count and how to address those issues and make things a little easier. However, even after this, some people find that they really just don't like it. I have had to get used to this outlook because at first, and still admitably, I can't quite comprehend it. I had a fried Chickfila chicken sandwich last night, Wendys nuggets the day before, doughnuts the day before, and of course the rest of the day I had healthy meals. If my family goes out for seafood, pizza, fast food, or birthday parties, I'm able to join in on the fun without ever feeling like I compromise my goals. I know that many people eat in many different ways though, so I totally understand when you feel that macro counting is not for you.

So, then, what do you do? 

I think that it's hard to quantify, which is fine but I think that many times people want me to create a program in that way and I find it very difficult with the very different needs of individual people. If there is a program that is created that has a specific meal plan for each person, then that just doesn't even make sense to me. There are VASTLY different needs for each person. I can say "Pick one carb, pick one protein" from this list type of thing, but again it most likely is not going to be near enough for some and way too much for others. So, I find that unfair to sell to people.

However, you can totally do this on your own and just eat to hunger every day in whole healthy foods. It's all about small changes in the right direction over time that lead to a healthy life, and one of those changes is making sure that you are getting a balanced diet. If you decide that macros are not for you, then just make sure that you are cognizant of the different food groups that you are consuming. What I mean by that is don't eat a diet full of only grilled chicken salads or only fruit or only almonds; it needs to be all three.

If you have protein pancakes for breakfast then throw some PB on top for fats. Fats are going to help you feel ever more satisfied than those protein pancakes alone. If you have a grilled chicken salad for lunch then make sure to have a piece of fruit and almonds as well. You will stay full longer preventing you from indulging in the afternoon. You should aim to eat smaller meals every 3 hours. Is there some rule of the body that means this will help you get results...No! Will this "speed up your metabolism"? No. It just simply is a good tool to help you not just have a free for all at 3 separate meals.

If you are like MOST people, you don't want to eat organic and healthy all of the time. Work hard, play hard. As someone who decides not to count macros, should you have a cheat meal each week? That's obviously for you to decide, but I'm a personal fan of not. I think that "cheat" has a bad connotation which leads to food anxieties. I believe in living every day at baseline normalcy because this should be a lifestyle not a restriction&deprivation on the weekdays to go crazy on the weekends. I want my clients to feel satisfied EVERY day.

To do this without counting, just be mindful again of the daily distribution and balance. If you have a doughnut at breakfast (or whenever), just know that it has a moderate amount of carb but a large percentage of fat, so if you go to dinner, I'd opt out of the steak and butter. If you want that steak though, then maybe enjoy a treat with carbs only earlier in the day. If you have pizza, then this is high fat so you want to aim for something like pasta with chicken for dinner. This is the method that Tanner follows, and that I'm trying to teach my brother to follow. It takes away from worrying about every morsel you put in your mouth, but still allows for treats. If you decide you want a full sugar soda, then you should skip pasta for dinner. That's two very carb heavy items in one day.

Obviously, aim for protein in all of those days as best as you can. It may sound bizarre but on days I'm not counting, I stop by Subway to get one of their grilled chicken salads as a snack, or I stop by Chickfila to get their grilled chicken nuggets or I carry tuna packets in my purse (don't judge me!). I'm not doing these things to restrict myself but rather to get that protein in to keep me satisfied therefore I can have an enjoyable dinner with family not tracking but will stop when I'm full because I'm satisfied the rest of the day. Sticking to a meal plan all comes back to satiety. You've got to be happy with what you are eating or you aren't going to want to continue. It's never about restriction. It's about being smart with your choices, letting go of food anxieties but also having discipline to pay attention and taking care of ourselves because it's so important for your overall general health and wellness.

I know this may seem vague, but I hope that it can helpful for those that decide counting is not for them! 

With love and NO macros,


Let's talk poop


What a title right? I have NO SHAME on this topic. It has been something that I've struggled with literally my entire life, and so I'm a PRO on the gastrointestinal system. Actually, not really, if I was a pro, I would be more regular but I have a lot of knowledge to spit out at you as a fellow struggler, pharmacist, and who doesn't love a little poop talk right? Okay, let's dive in. EW. {I'm gonna save pictures for another blog article HA}

Today, I'm going to discuss constipation. If you are someone that struggles in the opposite direction then this blog may not be for you. Many fit girls and many unhealthy people struggle with this issue. The gastrointestinal system is very complex, and honestly not the most understood so normally if you are chronically constipated then the GI specialist is going to tell you that you have IBS-C. What this translates to: You are constipated all the time, and miserable all the time and we really don't know how to help you but we are going to give you a disease state to make you feel better about life. 

Can you tell I've been through it all? My first big encounter was in the 7th grade when I passed out in California Dreaming bathroom from an impacted bowel. There was a nurse in the room who told me that my appendix had ruptured and they got the ambulance and took me to the hospital. What do you know? I was constipated. True story. HA!! I was on a mission trip, and they were praying over me. Hilarious. Okay moving on.. 

I was told to start eating more fiber. And by fiber, they must have meant more chicken fingers and french fries and more cheese. I ate so horrible. My next hospital visit was in college. Same situation-passed out, impacted bowel, "eat more fiber". I begged for more testing, but they said it wasn't necessary. Years later, after struggling literally every day with it and just learning to live with it, I was scheduled for endoscopy and colonoscopy. I didn't go through with it. We were going to have to pay out of pocket, and I was convinced after much research that we were going to pay for it, and then they were going to find NOTHING and I would be back to square one. I can almost bet all of you reading have been through this. It's so common. Colonoscopy-STILL NOTHING! So, they tell you IBS and send you on your way. 

Lately, in the pharmaceutical pipeline, there have been some drugs to be used in constipation. They are called Amitiza and Linzess. They take about 6 weeks to begin working, and the trials look really positive. If you have been through all other options, this is definitely something to look into. However, I wanted to offer you up some tips that have changed my life. 

Step 1: Start with diet 

As usual, nutrition and diet is not stressed enough. They tell you to eat more fiber so you start eating fiber one bars and wonder why it's not doing anything. I truly believe that our GI systems are super funky and thrive on consistency of diet. My problems were the WORSTTT when I was restricting during the week and gorging on the weekends. The body just doesn't know what to do. So get consistent with diet with an adequate amount of fruits and veggies for fiber. Eat as whole as possible. Don't obsess about it, but just make some positive changes.

Step 2: Start taking Metamucil or Fibrocon. I personally think that you could skip this step if you are really changing your diet for the better, but this is going to be what all physicians recommend that you do. This is just simply a fiber supplementation. 

This is stepwise, so if that doesn't work... 

Step 3: Stool softeners 

There are many different brands but Docusate is a good one, so just take them for a week to give it time to get in your system and get things moving and if it isn't working then move on because in my personal opinion, it probably won't work. 

Step 4: Osmotics (Miralax)

DING DING DING!!! Okay I'm such a fan. If you ask me, this will be my go-to first thing. Miralax changed my life. It's a powder that you add to coffee. Give it about 7 days and it is NOT a laxative. It simply pulls water into your intestines (and you can't even feel it-it's just natural movement) and softens the stool. Again, give it time!! If you are using this for more than 2 weeks at one time, then consult your physician to make sure that you can continue taking it. I use it every single day in my coffee! :) 

Step 5: Stimulants

This is going to be your last line option. This should not be your first line. I really screwed myself up and got my body addicted and the muscles in my colon really weakened by weekly use of laxatives. I even got to the point where I had to take 4-6 at one time to even produce a movement. I look back, and I honestly thought it was because I had a "problem" but I never took them unless I hadn't went for 2 weeks. It's pretty necessary at that point regardless. This is going to be harsh. It's going to hurt, but it will work. It should get the job done. Again, you do not want to take these on a regular basis AT ALL. It's so dangerous for your health (electrolyte imbalances are no joke). 

Many times if you go to the hospital, they may use an enema, and I've had to use one many times. This is like last last line as in "This shiz has to come out NOW". An impacted bowel is a very serious issue. Fecal matter only has so much space to fill up the intestines. After your intestines are full then it has to go somewhere else. If it gets into your bloodstream, then that is bad news bears. Impaction can actually be fatal so this should be taken seriously. Sometimes, I will still have weeks where I haven't gone all week. I can FEEL it. I always tell Tanner I feel toxic, literally....and I am.

Again, check out Linzess and Amitiza. I think that they are going to be more frequently used in the future for gastroporesis (slow movement), but not many physicians even know about these yet so mention them and they may could look it up and write you a script if they feel it's appropriate for you! I've heard awesome things!

You need routine. You need consistency and you need to find what works for you and stick with that. However, I think that if you get your diet consistent, your life will change. Let me be the first to tell you that I totally understand how awful this problem is, and how much it can affect your daily life so I hope this helps you to find some different options. Don't skip right to colonoscopy and expensive doctors visits. Try nature's way of fixing things and over the counter first! :) 

With love and poop,


UPDATE: It was mentioned through a comment below that I COMPLETELY agree with. While I joked that many times a colonscopy is done and nothing will be found, this is just simply what seems to happen a lot. However, also as I mentioned, the gastrointestinal system and constipation needs to be taken seriously. If you are experiencing continued discomfort then it is important that you reach out to your physician and make sure that there aren't other issues that you could discover that could be life changing for you! 

Reversing VS Cutting-Where to start?

As many start down the road towards macro counting, they hear these words and they get really confused by what they mean. It's quite simple, but it can be confusing for those that might not have a base of knowledge. They see girls online that are "reverse dieting" and losing weight so what is the difference between that and cutting. I wanted to break down the different scenarios and which approach is appropriate for each person. 

Cutting is going to refer to just simply losing fat or losing weight. Many times people will say that they don't necessarily want to lose weight but they just want to tone up. The simple fact is that "toning up" means decreasing the amount of fat that is on top of your muscles. Decreasing fat sometimes can be a simple change in body composition in which you don't really gain or lose weight however most of the time if you are leaning out to show that muscle underneath, you are going to lose a few pounds. 

This is what I would call cutting. I was just eating whatever on the left (still living healthily) and then I dieted down for shows

This is what I would call cutting. I was just eating whatever on the left (still living healthily) and then I dieted down for shows

Reverse dieting is not meant for cutting weight. Reverse dieting is meant to increase your metabolic capacity so that can eat a higher caloric intake but also stay lean (er). It is a very real possibility that you will gain weight during this process as this is very common. The overarching goal of reverse dieting would be for you to not gain weight at all, and if you do gain weight for that to be lean muscle that you've built through eating more carbs! There are some that lose weight but when you begin a reverse diet, you should know that this is for your future. This is for increasing your metabolism. This is for getting your calories higher so that you can "cut" on more calories. If you lose weight during the process then that's just icing on the cake. 

If you are someone who has really unhealthy eating habits, and you are eating 1000 calories and then going all out on the weekends, then reverse dieting would probably cause some weight loss for you. I'm not saying someone with an eating disorder but just simply someone who restricts during the week and then goes crazy on the weekends. I think this is about 95% of the female population based upon the emails I receive unfortunately. Just simply from observation, I've noticed that these women tend to lose weight. Our bodies crave homeostasis and when we are not keeping that, the cells in our body don't know what to do. Sometimes, an all out weekend affair can take up to 15 days for everything to come back to baseline which by that point, you've probably started again. This is the hamster on the wheel effect. Therefore, if you are getting some consistency even if that means way more calories during the week, then my guess is that during reverse dieting you would lose weight.

{Please remember, this is a blog and not a science experiment. The things that I present to you are simply observation, and there is no data to represent my opinions.}

If you read my blog regularly, you will see that most of the time I will recommend that you cut first and then reverse diet. The reason for this is that I feel that this gives an extra cushion. Some of my clients lose, some gain, but most just maintain on the reverse therefore whatever place that you start at a reverse diet, I like to think of that as a "set point" and you are either going to maintain that or gain. I normally would never tell someone that they are going to lose on a reverse (although it happens quite frequently) because I simply can't promise that. 

Some different reasons that you may reverse diet are : 

  • Increase your metabolic capacity and caloric intake 
  • Prepare yourself for a future cut 
  • Create healthier eating habits
  • Building lean muscle (lean bulk)
Reverse dieting progress pictures; Note: stayed same, wasn't cutting

Reverse dieting progress pictures; Note: stayed same, wasn't cutting

If you are just starting out and don't know whether you should reverse or cut, I think that you should ask yourself a few questions: 

1. Are you at a weight that you are comfortable with? 

If you have weight to lose, then I would recommend cutting first. Many times (pure observation), the leaner that you start the reverse, the more likely you are to stay lean. I have discussed this with my husband many times because I just watch this with many of my clients and we think that it may just be a fat cell number. If you have more cells to hold onto the extra food, then you are going to hold onto it. If you have less fat cells to start then you have less storage space already set up for that food and more lean muscle to gobble it up.

This does not mean however that if you are not at your goal weight that you can't reverse diet because that leads me to point 

2. Your calories are too low

I don't care if you are at your highest weight ever, if you are eating 1000 calories a day and are wanting to lose weight, I'm not going to help you cut until you reverse. I saw Layne Norton mention once that he has so many clients come to him that mention that they are eating 1200 calories and want to diet down for their first show. Where are you going to cut from that? That just simply isn't going to happen. You have to build your metabolic capacity to be able to handle a cut. Therefore, if you are eating nothing no matter your weight, you need to reverse. 

3. Are you in a situation where you can reverse? 

I feel I have to keep repeating this but again this is all observational, but the closer you hit those target increases each week, the more likely that you are going to be successful in maintaining weight during a reverse. I know that it seems silly to hit within a few grams every single day but that's normally what the girls have done on my team that are the most successful that haven't gained any weight. I have been wanting to reverse for like over a month now, but I knew with traveling, moving, and staying at other people's houses, this was simply not possible to hit macros every day and it was unrealistic. I would have put a lot of pressure on other people to fit my needs and that's not okay. So, I put off the reverse.

I think the only reason that the lines get blurred on the difference between these two is simply because many people advertise that they lost weight on their reverse, when if you look at the population at a whole of who has completed a reverse diet, most either maintain or gain. My clients almost always lose weight. I promise you I'm not advertising and I don't really understand it. The only thing that I can come up with is that I go slow. Very very stupid slow. I had one coach mention in a facebook group that my method was "ridiculous" because it was too slow. HA! Anddddd, I don't care because I've watched it work time and time again. If you are wanting to lose weight, most of the time you are going to "cut" which simply means "cut calories". If you are looking to increase your metabolism, then reverse dieting would be the better choice.

With love and nutrition


Clean Eating VS Macro count

I touched on this a little over a week ago when I posted a popular status that basically touched on the fact that I was tired of all the gimmicks and fear of food. If you eat a Mr. Goodbar or you eat a banana with a tablespoon of peanut butter, your body is going to process this the exact same way: as 30g carb and 8g fat.

I wanted to explain this in detail. 

First, what is clean eating? That's such a vague term but we all know what that means. It means eating all foods that mostly come from the ground and lean meats. It mostly means eating a bro diet for those that claim they "only eat clean" which is chicken, sweet potatoes, oats, and veggies. There is this list of food that has been deemed appropriate and those foods that have been deemed bad over the years, and no matter how hard I try, I feel as if it's impossible to pound this through everyone's head that there is more to life than the 5 foods they think they can eat.

If this is your first time reading the blog, then just quick recap of what macro counting is (sorry for all those that know-skip this paragraph) but this is just simply having a set number of fats, carbs, and proteins and no matter what the food is-it has a nutritional value. The calories in every food is made up of macros and therefore whether it's "unhealthy" or "healthy" your body will essentially metabolize it the same way.

However, this is not the full story. This is only half of the story so I wanted to make sure to give the full discloser. Foods have a glycemic index. Most of the time, carbs that you would think of as bad for you would be those with a high glycemic index. This simply means that it causes a large insulin spike when you have these foods. However, some fruits have a high glycemic index as well causing the same insulin response. Every person is different with how they respond to foods of this nature. Some people are insulin sensitive which means that they may have to eat more "clean foods" to see more fat loss. Studies have shown that when you keep insulin levels stable, it can help with fat loss. {I am also aware that there are MANY other factors that go into the bioindividuality of people, bioavalabilities of foods, and metabolism of whole foods and the difference between cooked and uncooked foods. I'm not disregarding all of this, but just want to keep it simple}.

Let me interject this paragraph to tell you about myself. I like to think of myself as a realist. Some may call me naive. Some may say I don't pay attention to detail. I just like to think that I don't like to stress myself out if I don't have to. If I run to the store downstairs for 5 minutes, I probably won't lock my door. If I want to do something in NYC, I may set my purse down if it's right beside me because I'm pretty sure some maniac isn't going to just run by me and steal it. If my dog swallows chocolate, depending on how much, I'm realistic enough to know that he's probably not going to die in like 5 seconds. I think this is why when I miss a workout or I eat a bad meal, I'm kinda like "ehhh whatevs". So, with that being said, the difference it will make in keeping insulin levels stable for fat loss is not worth not having high glycemic index foods to me. EAT THE FREAKIN DOUGHNUT.

I like to say follow the 90/10 rule but really what I mean is "Follow the don't be silly rule". If your family is having dinner, make that dinner fit even if it's not what you would prefer to fit your precious macros. You have plenty of days to make your favorite foods fit. If you are out and about and you are hungry and Taco Bell is beside of you, grab that myfitnesspal and find a taco that is pretty macro friendly and eat it. If you decide you want Wendy's, McDonald's, or Bojangles and it's not a weekend or a special occasion, just eat it. I'm becoming stubborn about this. Living life in fear of certain foods is just silly. Absolutely 100% silly. I just refuse. 

Again, let me swing the pendulum the other direction. This is by no means a reason to be lazy. This is by no means saying that you should fill your days with chemicals, GMO's, and processed foods. The majority of your foods should be from the Earth and full of micronutrients. This is so important. If you watch any documentary, you can see the value in this. The things that are put into foods these days are unreal, disgusting, and quite frankly unethical. But are you seriously going to avoid everything. Are you going to ex yourself out of social events because of your special diet? 

Now, let me address allergies. This is ENTIRELY different. If you have a gluten allergy or soy or nut or dairy allergy then this is an ENTIRELY different subject and I'm not talking to you so please don't be offended that you have to eat well 99% of the time. I'm talking to the normal "I can't eat this because it's going to make me blow up like a rhino" person.

Last but not least, vitamins and minerals. That is the huge difference. If you take the Mr. Goodbar and the banana + peanut butter, the banana is going to have more vital vitamins and minerals that are needed for functionality of your cells and organs. These are very important, and they are important on a daily basis. My sanity is also important on a daily basis so I really believe in having one "treat" per day. This doesn't just mean sweets but just simply something that is outside of the box and considered a little less healthy. 

Bottom line is that if we were going to get technical about things then you would need to eat completely raw, uncooked food. If you are able to do that and you are happy doing that, then that's incredible. However, if that's not your idea of a fun time, then you can certainly live a long, healthy and fulfilling life with a little moderation in there. I absolutely do not agree with eating junk to fill your macro numbers. I'm absolutely not a fan about being so concerned about your body image and macros, and not concerned about your overall health. I think that all of those things are really important, but I think that mental health and happiness with food enjoyment is very important too. 

Opinions are like butts. We all have them, and some are stinky. {Translation: If you don't agree, then my opinion probably seems pretty stinky to you but it's just my opinion so I wanted to go ahead and apologize for offending anyone.}

With love and macros,



I think that if you follow me for very long you will see that I don't use any supplements, and when I say none, I really do mean none. There are some that I don't have a problem with, but I just know that I'm fine without so I don't even worry about it. I'm a firm believer in that food from the ground is all that you need. Call me a quack, but I'm good without all those chemicals. 

You may wonder what I mean by which supplements I'm okay with (but yet am too lazy/ too cheap to actually use). 

  • BCAA's
  • Protein Powder
  • Creatine 
  • Good quality vitamins

I have done a post in the past about micronutrients and taking a multivitamin daily to get in all those extra needs that we most likely do not get in during our normal dietary intake. (I really should take a multivitamin but I've gotten lazy). I think that you need to be particular about which products you choose. I don't have a big long list of recommendations but just do your research and make sure that the company is a good company. If it is advertising 500 pills for $3 then you probably should look elsewhere. You get what you pay for.

As for BCAA's and creatine, they are the two of the most researched supplements out there. They ACTUALLY show significance in the studies to help with muscle recovery and growth. I'm not going to get into the science of each one of these and will save that for a different post on each individual supplement but rather to say that the data on these products are real and worthwhile. 

Obviously, protein powder is going to be a supplement worth getting if you are not getting enough in your diet and you need supplementation on this. I don't even really think of it as a supplement but if I say I don't use supplements and then people see protein powder in a recipe, they are like UMM YOU ARE SUCH A LIAR! HAHA! #HATERS Truth be told, I never use protein powder and even my mother-in-law was shocked to here this the other weekend. I get all of my protein from egg whites (mostly), cottage cheese, greek yogurt, chicken breast (but only once per day), ground turkey, lean beef, beef jerky, protein bars, and then from various carb sources such as beans or fat sources like peanut butter and nuts.

I find it actually hard to stay within my protein requirements because I love it so much, and I hate the taste of protein powder. I use it in recipes but otherwise, it just isn't good. Do you agree? I'm all about a lifestyle change that is not about misery but about flexibility and if you don't like it, you don't like it. I don't like asparagus so I don't eat it ... ever. I don't like celery, carrots, or protein powder so ... I don't use it.

I'd rather have this over protein powder any day of the week and will wake up however early I need to for time just to be able to eat it! 

I'd rather have this over protein powder any day of the week and will wake up however early I need to for time just to be able to eat it! 

Back to the topic at hand..

Supplements are in short.....a waste of your time and money. Please don't hate me for this because this is my blog so this is just simply my opinion. Supplements are crazy expensive. There are some that may make a small difference. Pre workouts will in fact get you jacked up, but I just simply eat a carb heavy meal 30 minutes before and I don't need extra chemicals in my body. If you go back to the primary literature, you will most likely find that almost every single supplement has some shady article that shows "statistical signficance." I have read through many studies on various supplements and most of the time you will find that they don't control for any variables, they have no power because they only have like 20 patients (like 10 in each arm of the study), and the study will be WAY biased in the design to make sure that the product shows some sort of difference. 

For example, and this is not from an actual study but just an example off the top of my head to give you a picture of what I mean. If you have a fat burner product and they run the study, they aren't going to be able to control for every single morsel that each participant puts into their mouth however, they will do some study with like 10 people that shows that they decreased weight by 0.000001% over the course of 15 weeks. They will also tell them to "eat well and exercise" (SO OF COURSE YOU'RE GOING TO LOSE WEIGHT DUH) and then the next thing you know, they have the miracle pill of weight loss and fat loss. 

People hate the pharmaceutical industry because they feel that they are stealing money from people, when these trials are actually legit and regulated and can help with disease states. But yet no one says anything about your local supplement shop "scientist" who sells you $200 worth of products that are going to make maybe a 0.00001% difference than if you were to just start dieting and exercising. I feel that many times people combine all of these together and give the credit to the pills and supplements. This goes for any weight loss gimmick whether that be a shake, supplement, or wrap. It always recommends to combine with diet and exercise. Of course they tell you that because they know that the product is not going to work unless you do that. 

Simply stated, work hard and the results will come. We all want an easy way around this. There is one answer: eat well in a good balanced format and exercise. Take that one to the bank. 

With love and lack of supplements, 


Faith and Fitness

Yesterday when I wrote the blog about my racing bucket list, I got so many emails with races to add to that, and ones that others are excited about doing. That's what I love about an online community. You can inspire and motivate one another, and then sometimes you even get to meet and it's such a beautiful thing! 

I wanted to talk today about my faith and how that relates to this crazy world of fitness. Let me tell you, it can be challenging. I talk about this a lot at my community group and I think it's my perfectionist personality but I struggle so hardcore with what I'm doing and making sure that this aligns with the purpose that God has for my life. I truly believe that it does, but I want to make sure to point it all back to Jesus and make sure that I don't get caught up in making this about me. 

I also find it challenging because many times I feel that in the fitness world, your product many times is your body. I want mine to be so much deeper but if you get to the root of things, I get a lot more followers when I post my body versus my bible but that's just life and I get that. I know that as a believer you are going to have these stumbling blocks and we all will struggle but I just want to have check points. I think I need them hourly. //I need you, oh I need you. Every hour I need you. My one defense, my righteousness, oh God how I need you.//

I start every day with a quiet time. It's such a great way to start the day. I sound like I'm sounding so "Christianese" right now, because let me tell you how I never did a quiet time until this year. I liked to pretend that I did, but I was never actually in the word. It radically changes you. It helps you to walk every day in your faith. I have this book that I write prayer requests for friends, but actually mostly for clients. They have heartaches, injuries, failures, setbacks, praises, joys and I want to make sure that they know they are covered in love and grace. I've never told them I have a list of their names, so SURPRISE! haha! 

I get disheartened by a lot of things that I see on the internet in the fitness community. I see way too many booties and boobies. I see way too much hate, way too much obsession, and I become immersed. Let me tell you... I get so frustrated that it causes me to say mean things about people who I don't agree with their motives or path but that's not glorifying in any all. So, I openly admit that. 

As a Christian, it's not about what's the black and white line. There are many topics that you could get into like "Why can you show your abs and I can't show my butt?", "Does counting macros and concern over weight make me a sinner?" "Where do you draw the line in tipsy and drunkedness which is a sin?"..."What is sexual sin? Is that kissing too because that's just crazy?" I think as people we want laws, we want black and white, and when God gave us laws in the Old testament it didn't work well. People are people and we are going to sin. The purpose of the faith and walking with Jesus is not to see how close you can come to the grey line and say "Oh what I'm doing is not quite a sin because of this disclaimer" but rather about making sure that your life, your actions and your purpose are pointing you to the cross and knowing that you WILL mess up and there is grace to cover that, but it's not a get out of jail free card. 

I think that one thing that you have to be careful of aside from showing too much of your body is the obsession with your body {obviously}. Anything that is an idol has got to go. I think we all know my background and how much of an idol I made healthy eating. I had to run far from that. Well how much is too much? I count macros on most weekdays. I train a lot, and will have to up my training to 12-15 hours per week for the half ironman, I run marathons, and I want to do an ironman {maybe}. THAT'S SO OBSESSIVE KATIE. YOU ARE MAKING AN IDOL. I disagree.

That's not for you to say. I'm different from you. That may be obsessive for you. That's what gives me life. What works for me is not going to work for you and that means even in the health and fitness industry. I know that two of my dearest friends think that macros makes them feel obsessive by counting. I know that for me, it gives me complete liberation and freedom to eat whatever the heck I want. One of those friends wants to eat very healthy during the week and have one big cheat meal. I don't like cheat meals at all because I want my overall days to be so wonderful in food that I don't even need a cheat meal. Her way is not wrong. My way is not wrong. Our idea of what makes us tick is just DIFFERENT. 

For some people, kissing is too far. That seems a little intense but that's what they believe. Some believe that eating meat is wrong in the faith. I don't agree. The point is that all of these laws, all of these rules are just that: rules. What you have to ask yourself is: Am I pointing this back to Jesus? Am I running to the cross every day? Am I making this an idol within my own individual life? Am I being a good friend? Am I in community with believers? Am I showing God's love, grace, and mercy daily? Am I a good wife, sister, mom?

If the answer is something that you are not happy with, then you can make changes. I've evaluated myself time and time again in this world, and even though I go around in circles, I always come back to the same answer from God. It's like I can feel him speaking to my heart and that is "I gave you this passion for a purpose. Direct everything back to me and you're good." 

I think that many times, women get caught up in the notion that "I NEED TO JUST BE A GOOD MOM AND THAT MEANS THEY COME FIRST!" ABSOLUTELY! I COMPLETELY AGREE! Time is limited, and you aren't going to take the time to do the things that you used to do for overall health. However, I think that showing confidence and pride in feeding your body well completely separate from body image is the best thing that you can do for your babies. Show them that health DOES matter. Body image, no. Health.

To give you more insight into who I am and how I live that out, I'm going to tell you how I do that. I'm not saying this is right, but I'm just saying this is how I approach things to not make an idol but also to be dedicated.

1. I count macros during the week. On the weekends, I normally go out to eat at places and don't really count but just make sure I get an overall balance of foods. If I get a chicken and cheese quesadilla for lunch then I know that has a lot of fat so therefore I may not order the steak for dinner and go with pasta instead to get more carbs. 

2. The only time I talk macros is on the blog, on social media, and if people ask. I never bring it up...ever. I never ever choose restaurants based on my preference but rather the experience with friends. I never ever tell a friend that I can't eat whatever they are cooking even if it's during the week. Tanner and I never talk about macros or our food. We just kinda do it. It's second nature at this point. 

3. I write out a training schedule, and I just do it. It's not hard. It's a habit. I just run the miles, bike the miles, lift the weights. It's not hard or obsessive and it always makes me feel so wonderful. 

4. If I miss a day of training, I'm really bad because I honestly could care less. I'm just like WHATEVS. Tanner's parents came into town, and I missed 2 days of planned out training. I'm not going to do that while they are here. That's just silly. Yes, it's on my schedule to run but it'll be okay. It's not that serious. If I go on vacation (like when we went to Europe), we ran like one day and found a gym to lift one day out of the 10 that we were there. It was fun to do in Europe, and that was that. I didn't think "Oh I can't wait to train. Oh I'm so depressed I can't train." I just didn't, and knew I'd get right back to it later. 

I hope this sheds some light to some on how I balance these two worlds <3 

With love and faith,


My Racing Bucket List

I think that every runner/triathlete should have a bucket list of all the races that they want to do in a lifetime. Many of the people that I follow on instagram completed the St. George 70.3 Pro Championship Race this weekend in Utah, and it made me so on fire and wanting to complete this one day. I think that race-cations would be a fun tradition to start. I'm not sure how Tanner would feel about this, but maybe once in a blue moon! 

So, the first one on my list will be St. George's, which is 2 hours from Las Vegas so my thought would be to complete the race, and then spend a few days in Vegas on vacation. 

Since, I'm moving to NC, there are going to be a TON of NC races on this but then I'll do the non local dreaming ones. I have at least 74 more years of life to complete all these (I plan on living to at least 100) so I'm good ;) 

Local Triathlons: 

  • Kings Mountain Sprint Tri (hometown tri so I'm excited to race May 30th of this year)
  • Beach to Battleship -Wilmington (to be completed Oct 17 2015)
  • Lake Lure Sprint (Aug 15-we shall see how I'm feeling and I might do this one) 
  • Greenville Sprint Tri
  • Market commons Tri (Myrtle Beach whoop whoop)
  • Carolina Beach Double Sprint (this sounds so fun-Swim//Run//Bike//Run//Swim)

Local Marathons/Races:

  • Grandfather Mountain Marathon (to be completed-July 11) 
  • Asheville Marathon 
  • Tobacco Road Marathon 
  • Umsted Trail Marathon
  • Rock N Roll Raleigh
  • Raleigh City of Peaks Half Marathon (I don't know why but I'd rather not use a marathon on this one so I think I'll just do the half) 
  • All Shelby 5K's (try to improve time; PR:19:20)

Traveling Triathlons: 

I haven't yet decided if I ever want to do a full ironman. I think that how the half goes will tell. I have always said that I wanted to, but that is a HUGE commitment, and by the time I'd be ready, I plan on being a mom so I'm not sure I want to take the time out to do it.

  • St George's Pro Championship
  • Oceanside California 70.3
  • Disney World 70.3
  • Norway 70.3 

Traveling Marathons/Races: 

  • Las Vegas Strip Marathon 
  • Rim to Rim to Rim (Grand Canyon Ultra Marathon-42 miles)
  • Boston Marathon (multiple times hopefully) 
  • NYC Marathon 
  • Grandma's Marathon 
  • Marathon in every state (that's a big to do I know)
    • especially somewhere out west like Colorado or Utah
  • Goofy Challenge (thinking about doing this in Jan but not sure) 
    • Half Marathon on Saturday, Full Marathon on Sunday at Orlando
  • Big Sur Trail Marathon 
  • Paris Marathon

This is all I can come up with so far off the top of my head, but I can promise there is so many more. These are obviously going to be over much time, much money saved, and much training. It excites me to think about the future, and actually putting in the time and work for this. I've found what makes my heart beat, and that's competing in endurance sports. I have went a lot of avenues in health and fitness but this one.... I just don't know how to explain it. When you are doing something that you feel you are meant to do, it's hard to stop thinking about it. I hope everyone can find their passion.

With love and racing,


Healthy Shaming

Fat shaming, skinny shaming, body shaming... it never ends right? I'm sorry to be that girl that's "offended" because I'm truly so used to this at this point, but I wanted to address a topic that I'm FINALLY confident enough to not let it get to me... 

"Katie's the health nut"...."Katie, are you going to eat that?"...."You probably won't eat that, you're too healthy"...."We all know she will have to work out." ... "Ew what are you eating?"..."I could never be skinny like you... I like food too much."

I seriously could go on and on. It never ends, and it probably never will. I think that health and fitness are becoming more and more accepted, but it is seriously something that people do not like. It makes them uncomfortable for you to eat healthy in front of them. It makes them even more uncomfortable if you don't come to things because god forbid, you are dedicated to your training schedule. 

They tell you that you CAN in fact miss your training run. They tell you that you are skinny enough already and don't need to work out anymore. They tell you that you can in fact eat the burger and fries (and they'll say that tomorrow even if you ate the burger and fries that night). 

Yea yea, I know people will comment "Oh they are just jealous". Well, its frustrating. I know from talking to many many girls that they literally are embarrassed to order a salad at a restaurant. There is this constant pressure in our society to be perfect. We have to look fit but not really actually eat well. It's much hotter when a girl can THROW DOWN THAT FOOD and have no discipline and still have an amazing physique. Yea, that would be awesome but there's something to be said for a girl who isn't scared to take care of herself without the fear of someone thinking she's restricting herself and "doesn't know how to have a good time."

I'm well aware it's not just girls. Tanner gets the same reactions when he turns down some things. We both eat. We both eat a lot, but we eat a lot at specific times and in specific macronutrient breakdowns to fuel our bodies, our goals, and our lives. We aren't in fact obsessive ... at all. We are made out to be obsessive by those that want to always point out what we are eating. "Oh sorry I'm eating this cheeseburger." DUDE I DON'T CARE! I'm not restricting myself here. I'm simply taking care of myself. Tanner and I don't talk about macros. We just eat to fuel our performance, and we talk about our sports not food because it's simply a vehicle to help us do better.

It's cool to drink beer. It's cool to eat cheeseburgers, pizzas, oreos, doughnuts and that's all awesome in moderation. Good lord knows I'm so huge on actually eating these things (and probably eat them too much) but I'm just a little fed up with people making healthy people "nuts". I personally think it's a little more nuts to have diabetes and heart disease but just not care and continue eating horribly. I don't throw out comments about anything that anyone eats...ever. I simply don't care what they eat. I do me. You do you. I just wish that people would be more understanding and accommodating for those that actively live a healthy life...not a restrictive life. That's not what this is about. Why does health=diets=restriction? NO! 

If you are a girl that goes out to eat and all there is on the menu is crap and a salad, order your dang salad in pride. Don't be afraid to stand for health. Don't be afraid to order what YOU want to order because it makes you feel good and fits your goals not the goals of those around you and you feel the peer pressure to want to "socially fit in". Be proud. 

Over and out. 

With love and health nuts,


Harvest Granola

So, I'm excited to share with you guys today about Harvest Granola which is a company that's near to my heart as the owner and chief is a wonderful friend from Young Life when I was in high school. She has opened a small batch granola business, and let me tell you guys, this stuff is amazing. I assumed when I was going to taste it that it would be just like every other granola, but this is just seriously so delicious. I don't know what she puts in that stuff. ;) We will let her keep the secret ingredients! :) It's all locally sourced, no preservatives, and specific to ones dietary needs (gluten free, paleo, vegan, allergies).

The reason that I love this granola is because of how portable it is in many different sized packs for my endurance athletes. It also comes in large sized packages for events you may have! It's a delicious carb filled treat to take with you on any of those long runs without all the hassle. Not to mention, you feel super chic. ;) While Blair works with endurance athletes, ultra marathoners, cyclist (land run 100), triathletes, she also works with sororities, weddings, corporate retreats and boutiques because it is packaged so cute!

Blair has seriously taken time and attention to not just throw some product at you but to make sure that everything is perfected. Everything is such high quality and the taste is just amazing! I think I've raved enough, and I will provide the nutritional info below for each of the 4 different flavors you can choose from: Pecan Crunch, Paleo Crunch, Fall Spice, Quinoa Crunch! 

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I thought you guys might want to hear Blair's story about how this company came to fruition! In the meantime though, take two seconds to click this link and see what all she has to offer. I PROMISE you that you won't be disappointed if you order. 


Hi!  My name is Blair and I'm the creator, head chef and general bossy pants at Harvest Small Batch Granola.  I wish I could claim to be a classically trained chef or a third-generation restauranteur, but the truth is this: I'm just an average girl that was sick and tired of decoding the nutrition-label nightmare. 

I grew up in an active family and played a variety of sports growing up.  But, as the years passed I grew less active and more social (sorority softball anyone?)  It was in 2005 that I looked in the mirror and couldn’t recognize myself!  Sure, I was happily married and loving my new town, but I’d lost myself in those identities.  Does this story sound familiar? 

Initially, I didn’t know much about the diet world.  I knew that I needed both nutrition and fitness plans and I had great success with Weight Watchers and a personal trainer at my local YMCA.  I dropped 60 pounds and found a new source of energy and happiness that I’d never known!  I started trying new sports and found my passion in distance running.

As I became more active I realized that Weight Watchers wasn’t working for me.  It had been a great part of my weight loss journey, but it wasn’t helping me fuel my active lifestyle.  WW will let you spend all your points/calories on bread, wine and cheese (not that I ever did that…) but let’s be honest, you can’t run a marathon on that diet!  I cleaned out the fridge and pantry: no more prefab meals—it was time for real food. 

Good-bye preservatives and long-shelf-life foods.  Hello farmers market, colorful veggies and cookbooks!  I’m a (lazy) vegan runner and my husband is a cyclist living on a college-boy diet.  When I started making our food from scratch and experimenting with different recipes and ingredients, one of the staples in our house became granola. 

We used granola plain and with yogurt for breakfast, in no-bake “cookies” to take with us on long runs and to top our parfaits for dessert.  Our friends began asking me to make some for them and before I knew it I had a little side-business. 

My family and I moved, for my husband’s job, from NC to OK in the summer of 2014.  It was during this cross-country move that I decided to take the leap and transition from part-time baker into a full-fledged, commercial-licensed, LLC-carrying, FDA approved granola guru: Harvest Small Batch Granola was born! 

We work with local farmers to find the freshest ingredients possible and then we're off to our commercial kitchen to craft custom batches just for you.  From our farms to your table.  Does it get any better than that?

These recipes are dear to my heart and it's my hope to provide you with something you'd be proud to serve to your family and friends.  We have had the privilege to serve a wide-range of customers and are truly humbled each time you choose to serve our granola at your breakfast table, Saturday brunch, baby shower, wedding reception, 5k, conference, and more.  

 with love and oats,


Morganne Testimonial

As you all may have seen, Morganne is my client/friend that is officially in Germany for deployment. She's such a sweetheart, and wanted to share her experience and story with you so I thought I would share.

How do I even begin to explain how much Reverse Dieting has changed my life? The past 20 weeks have honestly been more than I ever could have imagined. I remember the day I received my workouts and my metabolic build-up 20 because I was filled with anxiety and nerves, but at the same time absolute confidence that this is what my life needed!

I started with Katie on her Fitness Prescription plan before starting my Reverse Diet to do a mini-cut (3 weeks long LOL), but mainly find maintenance. At the end of this I asked myself, what’s next? Where do I want to be in the future? The answer was to reverse and build up my metabolism!

In the 20 weeks I reversed, I have upped my carbs by 85g ---150g to 235g and my fats by 10g ---50g to 60g. 15 weeks in I decided to stop increasing my fats because my body responds better to medium fat levels…if there’s anything I’ve learned it’s to listen to your body! Reverse Dieting is hard, but it is so worth it if you stick to your macros and stay consistent. My approach was to incorporate all foods daily and to omit a “cheat meal.” If I wanted sweets I would plan it in, because it kept me from going overboard on food, and in my opinion there are no “naughty foods” or “good foods.” Reverse Dieting is about finding balance in your life and this was a way that I achieved that feeling.

Along this journey there have been days where I wanted to give up and where I questioned myself, but at the end of the day I kept remembering my WHY. It’s a hard process, you will be bloated if you eat too many volume foods right after an increase, your weight may fluctuate, you might feel too hungry or even too full…but it is temporary feeling for a long term goal!

At the end of all of this my outlook on life and food has turned completely around. I see food as fuel for my body, a cookie is going to be used in the same way as an apple, which one satisfies my hunger more? I’ve slowly regained confidence that I had lost many years ago. I see the gym and lifting heavy with cardio as something I love doing because it makes me feel good, not because I need to work out to feel good.

Final stats: 235C/155P/60F and 3lbs of weight lost overall ***please note weight loss was not my initial goal, but something my body did naturally. I fluctuated within a 4lb range my entire reverse, but my ending weight is 3lbs less.

Words of advice: trust this process, trust Katie, reach out to her if you’re second guessing things, write down how you felt daily or weekly, record your measurements/weight/weekly pictures, and remember your reason why. If you don’t put forth 100% you won’t get results you want. You’ll only get what you put into this.

Below is Morganne's transformation, aka she increased her diet tremendously and didn't change. She was able to successfully reverse and now feels much more comfortable going into deployment. She also is the most incredibly sweet woman out there.

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With love and reverse dieting, 


Crossfit VS Bodybuilding

If you follow my social media accounts, you know that I did crossfit for the first time the other day. It was such an awesome experience, and I would like to give a shoutout to the "box" aka gym in my hometown for being a really good Crossfit gym who makes sure that you know form before you go doing all kinds of crazy stuff. 

I've had a few people ask me the difference because they haven't been able to afford Crossfit, and what that was like as opposed to heavy lifting and bodybuilding. 

Bodybuilders are haters of cross fitters. We all know this. It's like this unspoken rule (or spoken for that matter) that if you are a bodybuilder, you would never be caught dead doing crossfit. I think that it's becoming more widely accepted, but I wanted to make something clear: 

They are two different sports. 

Do you ever compare soccer to basketball and say which one is better? I guess some people would argue on that topic, but arguing about which is better for your goals is silly. Crossfit people don't care about the goals of bodybuilders and bodybuilders don't care about the goals of cross fitters. That's cool, and one is not better than the other. They are just....DIFFERENT. 

Crossfit has had some bad press in the beginning. There were gyms that were not teaching correct form and people were getting hurt. The intensity of the "WOD"(Workout of the Day) was even causing rhabdomyolysis which is quite simply when muscle tissue breaks down so much that it puts a protein in the blood that can actually kill you from kidney failure. I can only imagine how crossfit felt (especially those that were doing it the right way). It's like when someone tells me that there are people who die at every marathon so I shouldn't run them, and there are articles saying that running more than 2 miles is dangerous for you. Well, so is a bag of potato chips but we won't go there.

So, when bodybuilders talk about crossfit, they always say that injuries are bound to happen and that you can't get "gains" from crossfit. Wrong. Wrong again. I don't think that we should put down every crossfit gym just from the few that are not teaching form. And have you seen some of the girls that do crossfit? They are JACKED! Yes, bodybuilding athletes meticulously perfect every muscle fiber on their bodies to be aesthetically pleasing but again, that's not the focus of crossfit. It's a different sport. They are more concerned about the athleticism of the sport not the aesthetics, but most of the time at a high level of both, your body will look awesome. 

Another thing bodybuilders "hate" on cross fitters is their kipping pull-up. Even my husband joked with me when I showed him a video that he couldn't believe I was kipping. Cross fitters do dead hang pull-ups, and cross fitters do kip ups. They are entirely different exercises, and work entirely different muscle groups. No, kips are not dead hang and yes, dead hang is harder. Everyone knows that. If someone says they did 100 pull-ups and they really did 100 kip-ups, that's annoying, yes. However, kipping pull-ups are going to work your core like CRAZY and your shoulders where as a dead hang pull-up is going to be your biceps and lats.

A crossfit athlete is aiming for strength, speed, and agility in completing a high intensity interval type workout whereas bodybuilders are focused more on static movements, increasing weight so that in return they break down muscle fibers to grow back more aesthetically pleasing and bigger. Bodybuilders focus on "gains" with a side benefit of focusing on strength however as all bodybuilders dial into a show and are dieting, they are going to lose strength. Crossfit athletes are the opposite. They are focused on the strength with a side benefit of gains. 

I love both so I'm not saying that one is better than the other, but just simply explaining the differences. I do know however though that I have been doing bodybuilding type workouts for 2 years now, and I have never been so sore as I was when I went to crossfit! 

With love and crossfit,


Hybrid Triathlon Training Week 2

So, I promised that I would update you guys each week as I went along in my progress to the half ironman. I think that it will be fun to see how I progress, and you can look at the workouts that I'm doing every day and decide if you wanna steal them or what-not! :) 

I've really been enjoying my training. I honestly think that I could be a full time athlete and be happy. If I could just train all day long every day and eat tons and tons of food, I'd do that. However, wouldn't be all right? haha!

Surprise surprise, I haven't been blogging consistently. I want to, believe me!!! I have just accepted that when my schedule looks like it does right now, it's a bit unrealistic until I get settled in the south and that's okay! :) I will still update you guys with new information frequently!  If you have anything that you've been curious about, feel free to email me and I can write a blog on it or you can comment! 

This week I'm staying with some friends in Brooklyn. I actually am loving spending time with different people as our time ends in NYC and am so thankful for the way that it turned out. One of the guys that Tanner is staying with texted me today to thank me for letting him stay with them! Haha! So, even though it's been not ideal for us to be homeless, it's given us time to spend time with the ones we love. My diet has been all over the place, but I could care less right now. That's not the priority. I don't have my own kitchen or normal food. I'm eating out a lot, and thats just life! :) No biggie! 

The last post about my training ended with the 12 mile run that I did this past Sunday. I enjoy long runs on Sundays because we go to church at night and I like to have Saturdays as my rest day. Thats just what works for me. With being back in NYC, I actually called about getting access to a pool and it was THIRTY.FIVE.DOLLARS. per visit. Thirty.five. HAHAHAHA! NO.

People be cray. 

So I won't be swimming for the next two weeks but that's okay. My half ironman is not until October so I'm just building a base right now. Biking indoors and running it is! 

  • Monday-Light Leg Day + 25 minute bike (5 miles)
  • Tuesday-6 mile tempo (on the treadmill) and shoulders
  • Wednesday-45 minute bike, 2 mile easy pace run (to get used to this transition and the way it makes your legs feel weird)
  • Thursday-Back Workout (30 minute max), 60 min bike 
  • Friday-8 mile run 
  • Saturday-REST 
  • Sunday-12 miles 

As you can see, I'm hitting shoulders, back, and legs lightly. I'm alternating which weeks I do a heavy leg day. I'm not doing one every single week, and when I do a heavy leg day it's not for volume and I'm not including much accessory work. I find that this keeps soreness lower. I'm just maintaining strength and doing low rep, super heavy deadlifts and squatting. It's more of a power lifter approach on those days (5 sets of 5 and things like that). 

I tend to enjoy doing tempo workouts on the treadmill. I find that I'm able to train better that way. I really want to get a Garmin watch soon, but for now this will do. I track all milage on my phone (mapmyrun app). 

On my easy mileage days, I'm taking it super easy. I'm so afraid of injury so I'm running like 10 min miles no joke. On my long run days, I try to keep it around 8 min miles so just medium paced. I know I haven't mastered anything yet and this is all a learning process for me but I thought you guys  might enjoy following along in my tri journey! :) 

With love and training, 



That Time I Had a Conversation with Sarah Jessica Parker

So, today I came back to New York and as I was entering the air tram, I noticed the cover of Glamour ... 

My immediate reaction was THERE'S MY GIRL!!! I have always loved SJP but after "that time I met SJP" I'm obsessed. To be beside of Michelle Obama as one of the most powerful women, I just couldn't agree more. Ahhhh.... okay let me tell you about it. Y'all, I have convinced myself that we are besties. It's ridiculous! I had dreams that we got coffee after I met her and she invited me into her home. Okay, I'm insane. Here's the story: 

Tanner and I were on one of our many adventures to NYC and one of the things that I wanted to do was stalk out every celebrity that I knew lived in the city. No joke, I googled. I had a map. We were on a mission. 

So, off we went. We went by where Hugh Jackman lives. That was anticlimactic. It was a building which I should have known they all would be, but we had coffee at his coffee shop so that felt cool. We then we went to the stoop of Sex in the City filming. They have it blocked off, but I took a picture. 

Sarah Jessica Parker's brownstone was close by so I wanted to go see that as well. It's in Greenwich Village, and I can't find the exact picture but we found the road on google and then we found a picture similar to this one.. 

I wish I could find the picture that we had because it was the entire reason that we got to speak with her. It showed the entire line of brownstones, and I noticed a vent above one of the other doors. I noticed her brownstone did not have that, so we looked up and down the road and our eyes laid upon the one that matched the picture that had to be hers.... 

and wait for it ...... 


I paniced. My heart started beating out of my flipping chest. I grabbed Tanner "Oh my gosh that's her". She was dressed head to toe with sunglasses on decorating her porch because of course all celebrities do that in the city. I took this picture... 

So, I told Tanner we couldn't talk to her because I was too scared. Tanner was like UH YES WE ARE! So, we walk up to the bottom of the steps and Tanner says "Mrs. Parker" and you can tell she kinda ignores us. Then he sheepishly says it again... "uhhh Mrs Parker?" 

And she slowlyyyy turns around. *INSERT RAPID HEART RATE*

She is almost scared of us, and says "Can you please not photograph me?" very sweetly. I was like "oh no no no we won't. That's totally fine. I'm so sorry." And then it was like she let her guard down when she realized we weren't crazy people. She told us how she just really was trying to decorate her porch and have a few minutes of normalcy is all. So she asked us if we were here to visit, and we said we were. We talked small talk for like 5 minutes. I don't even remember. It's all a blur. Then she said "Well seriously y'all are the cutest couple in Manhattan! I hope you know that. Enjoy your time here." and then we told her bye and then of course under my breath I'm like TANNER.WHAT.IS.LIFE.WHAT.JUST.HAPPENED?

We walk around the corner, and the paparazzi were waiting. It made me sad. She just wanted to decorate her porch like we all love to do at Christmas. The next day, this was posted .. 

with THIS article

She did a stand up job!!! That porch looked awesome! And I'm forever a fan. I looked up her publicist, and wrote a letter saying that she will never know how much I love her now because she took the time to actually talk to me and my husband. She will probably never remember it, but it's something I will forever. I really don't care that much about all celebrities, but she is a fave (with Carrie Underwood and Jennifer Aniston)! 

So, now tell me your awesome story of celebrity meetings?! I wanna know! 

With love and SJP,


The Ringleys Move to North Carolina

Wow. Just wow. I can't believe I'm writing this post, but I knew that it was going to happen soon-ish. I actually didn't expect it to be happening as fast as it did, but we know that our God's timing is perfect and for that, we are so thankful. I would like to start this post with saying that man, are we doubters? We know that our God is so good and yet we constantly worry and doubt the goodness of his plan in our lives, and then BAM everything is smooth sailing again. It's a good lesson for us each and every time of His grace and how we need to trust more. 

It wasn't long ago that I was making a post about how we were going to stay in New York another year. Actually, I think that post was at Christmas so it's almost embarrassing that signed, sealed delivered, we are moving to North Carolina again. If you live in NYC, you would know that it's an ever changing decision for a lot of people daily. It's funny. You absolutely love it one second, and then you are thinking "WHY AM I HERE??" the next. I think he would be wiling to admit that I was more on the love side of the equation and Tanner was more on the WHY AM I HERE side. Haha! As a married couple though, that becomes morphed into one. That's how we roll in this household. 

Before we left for Europe, we started searching for new studios to move into. We wanted to downsize even more to be able to afford loan payments and rent sensibly. We decided the smallest we could do was 500sqft and we were going to do  it! Rent is expensive in New York City. It's absolutely-insane-o outrageous-make you wanna vomit every month type rent, but you pay it. It's just DIFFERENT there. Everyone hates it but we do it and we make it. We all make it work. We do community laundry, we wait for elevators, we ride in cramped crowded subways to not be late, and we are late for almost everything because it takes forever to get anywhere because you have to walk. Country people are always like WHYYYYYY?? Because you love it. There is an energy, a thrill, and there is just SOMETHING that always brings you back for more. I can't explain it but it's a different world up there. I am forever changed because of this year. 

I do not know the exact turning point although I could tell you a story or two about what Tanner has had to go through this year but he works 330-1130pm and he misses everything. I feel like I can't explain how much this affects someone unless you live in the same house. All the good of New York-the friendships, the nights out with friends, dinner dates, bible study, and even our church meets in the evenings (and he works every third weekend), he missed. I can't tell you how many times I've heard "Where's Tanner?" .... "He's at work." All he got to experience was the hassle of NYC (walking miles and miles, packed subways, carrying all groceries, community laundry) and it wasn't fair to him. I don't want this to sound like we are complaining. He loved the job and the people and constantly said he just wanted to be thankful to be working but the time was just NOT going to change. With the union, it's impossible to get another job and all hospitals are going to start you on evening shift for the first 5 years anyway to "pay your dues". This affected me to because I literally would say Tanner and I have had dinner in the city a total of 8-10 times in one year, maybe less. We did the breakfast/lunch date thing but it's not the same. I didn't always want to go to events because I wanted my stinkin husband there! haha! 

Soon after, he fell upon his dream job in Charlotte. I have to say that I was like "but we are staying one more year" until I just realized how Tanner was just putting his life on pause for me. He was grinding day in and day out just to make me happy in a place that he wasn't happy. And quite frankly, I can be happy anywhere. That's when I knew it was time. I told him to apply. He said he wasn't qualified by what they posted. I was like "dude, apply anyway" with an emphasis on the dude. He applied to other jobs in the meantime and didn't hear anything for a few weeks and got really defeated. He finally decided to just go for it. WHY NOT? YOLO!!! They contacted him the next day. CAN THE WIFE GET A "I TOLD YOU SO" POINT? ;) 

The process has moved very quickly. They did a phone interview, then flew him down for a day long in person interview. This was about one week ago. He got the phone call yesterday that he was officially offered the position as the new Clinical Oncology Pharmacist position at CMC's extension in Shelby. So, he will be training in Charlotte for the first three months and then will be the first pharmacist at their new Levine center in Shelby. This makes me a very proud wife! :)

For those that are familiar with pharmacy, he only has a PGY1 and so to fill in the gap of that PGY2 oncology specialty, he is going to get board certified in oncology (BCOP).

Have you been wondering why I'm in North Carolina? Now you know. Our lease ran up in New York and originally we were going to get a new place, but this happened way too fast. We are so thankful for that, but it's also bittersweet. I didn't want to inconvenience anyone, so I have been sleeping at my moms house. I'm going to go back up for the final 3 weeks to spend time with friends and church family. 

That brings me to my personal emotion, which is the most bittersweet feeling I've ever felt. New York City is glamorous but it's not always glamorous or nearly as romantic as it seems all the time. It's HARD but it's also amazing. My love is so big for this place on the map. But what's more glamorous is getting to kiss the chubby cheeks of my nephew as he grows up, and to hold my grandmothers hand whenever I want when she's sick. It's exceptionally glamorous knowing that I'm going to be eating dinner with my husband. We have yet to have a "real life" type life together as we have been in pharmacy school, residency, or him working evening shift and it's so exciting to think about just living life with my husband. AHHH BLISS! 

As I'm typing this though, I'm in tears. Brandy Whitley is the best friend I've ever known, and we will finally be separating and know that we won't be living in the same place again. I have made so many other best friends that I just can't imagine not seeing all the time. There is no explanation for how much we love our church-Apostles NYC. It has CHANGED us. Apostles is the reason that we will be the people that we are for the rest of our lives. I'm so sad to leave but I'm also so happy for the opportunities ahead. We are going to buy a house in the foreseeable future, and we want to eventually start our own family! This is all SO exciting!!!!

So with that, I'll leave you with the fact that no matter what, I'm now the hugest fan of taking a leap of faith and going for your dream. Always. Never think it's not possible because you can and will make it work. We doubted God this entire process, and he had everything lined up just perfect. It's about time we start listening. We have had the time of our lives, and we will remember this year for the rest of our lives.

With love and big moves,


Building a Booty

Hey guys! I'm not going to lie. I'm blissfully busy but unbelievably busy and that's why the blog posts have been a bit sporadic. I basically spend all day every day helping clients and then I started the apparel line. Okay, enough excuses but just so you know I still love blogging with all of my little heart and soul but I'm already working like 10 hours+ a day! SHEESH! 

This blog post is really out of character for me but I really wanted to clear the air because I feel that there is A LOT of confusion on getting that booty lift that we all want. 

It's totally obtainable for everyone, but it's going to take a lot of work. However, that's like trying to grow your biceps overnight. It's not going to happen. You have to be super duper patient. I can remember taking a picture of my quads the first day I was lifting and thinking "this will be my before" and now it is! But I have been lifting 2 years to get where I am today. Your glutes are a muscle, and they are also fat. Fat distribution is going to be different for every person. Some people get wider hips when they gain weight. When I gain weight, it actually goes to my glutes. Most women gain it in their thighs and in their stomachs (great right?) 

Either way, the glutes are a muscle that you are going to have to develop. Even worse than biceps or quads, they are actually REALLY hard to target. Muscle mind connection for glutes is probably one of the most critical. Just simply doing the exercises can end up working your hip flexors or your quads or your hamstrings, and if you are doing glutes then you need to focus on the actual side glute muscle as you are doing them. 

The reason that I'm writing this blog article is not to tell you what you already know about glute workouts but rather to defend a common myth...running will give you a pancake booty. I'm sharing this picture to defend running and that is the only reason. This picture was taken in the middle of marathon training after 4 months of training and running a minimum of 30 miles per week with a peak of 50 miles per week.

The reason that there are pictures of girls while running and they have a pancake booty is that.... THEY HAD A PANCAKE BOOTY BEFORE! They were genetically born with a flat butt and then they started running. Running didn't cause that. Running is NOT going to build your booty and that's not the claim that I'm trying to make (unless you are very diligent in doing spring work) but running is going to vaporize it either. I keep going back to the bicep but it's a good example. When you started running, did you expect your bicep to grow? NO! Many people utilize running for the wrong reasons. It's a sport. It's not meant to shape and define your muscles. Your muscles are in fact going to be worked, and slowly over time you will build shape but that's what the gym and weights are for. If you are runner, GET IN THE GYM! If you are in the gym, don't be afraid to run! And not just aesthetic purposes, but because they both are a great compliment to one another!

The before and after picture is the difference between running only with ZERO nutritional knowledge and then the right is lifting and running and dieting. The second picture was taken when I was only averaging about 10-15 miles per week so it was nothing heavy by any means, but I was still in fact running. I haven't really ever stopped completely, but when I was competing I did lay off a little. The left even has a slight delt on the left arm and I have no idea why unless my beach body insanity worked my arms enough to give me that because I didn't lift haha! 

My point is this: If you want to be a runner, and you feel that you want a butt more then don't feel like you can't have your CAKE and eat it too. Oh my gosh, that's so perfect and I just made it up! For those that may not know young people lingo. Cake = booty HAHA! If you are a runner and refuse to lift, then yes you are going to remain the same but if you properly fuel your body and you get in the gym with a leg and glute day every single week then slowly over time you are going to build that muscle group.

Squats are the cliche exercise to build the glutes when in fact, they really work your quads a lot, unless you are going full range of motion which most people are not going butt to feet. To target your butt, focus on pushing through your heels as you sit complete back. Some key exercises that target the glutes are: 

  • Glute Kickbacks (you can do this with weights or you can do this with bands) 
  • Abductor Machine (If you don't sit completely down in the seat and leave your knees at 90 degrees instead of 135 and put the weight up super high, you will feel a KILLER burn in your glutes) 
  • Sumo Squats 
  • Lunges
  • Bulgarian Split Squat

If you add these in (heavy heavy) every single solitary week of training then slowly over time, your glute muscle will develop that shape that you are looking for! Nothing worth having ever came easy, so get in there and work that BOOTAYYYY! 

With love and glutes,